Discussion is key to learning.

In a screen-bound world, face-to-face conversation is hard.

But it’s important—and teachable.

We help schools teach it.

OUR CORE BELIEF

Discussion skills are teachable — it’s time to get tactical about teaching them.

Our signature program, R.E.A.L.® Discussion, breaks the art of discussion into teachable, assessable skills for a generation of students who would rather text than talk.

Today’s kids struggle with the basics: listening deeply, engaging different viewpoints, expressing themselves, reading non-verbal cues. These are foundational skills for academics — but also for relationships, college, democracy, and career. The causes of this communication crisis may be up for debate (blame phones, pandemic, politics, parents!) but here’s what’s not: our shared future depends on young people learning how to talk and truly listen to each other.

At R.E.A.L.® we design the discussion skills strategy your school needs in today’s world. We customize our research-based approach to your mission and context, blending R.E.A.L.® Discussion into what you already do.

Since Since 2021, we have worked with 70+ K-12 schools, and we’ve learned that our strongest partnerships start with three shared beliefs:

  • Discussion starts with skills: our programs teach students how to communicate—not what to say.  
  • These skills are high-stakes: discussion skills instruction belongs in core academic courses — not advisory.
  • This work is worth the time: meaningful growth comes from multi-year measurement and practice — not “one-and-done” PD.

R.E.A.L.® Discussion is one of the most compelling and actionable ways any school can train our youth to communicate effectively – and respectfully – across differences.
Dr. Margarita Curtis
Former Head of School, Deerfield Academy (MA)
Partner, Strategic School Leadership

“R.E.A.L.® Discussion is the perfect strategy for actually teaching and assessing the communication skills strand of our Portrait of a Learner. It brings ideals like empathetic listener, courageous communicator, and critical thinker into clear focus for our teachers and students. And the discussions themselves are amazing: equitable, rigorous, and truly-student led!
Connie White
Director of Learning and Innovation,
Woodward Academy (GA)
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OUR CORE BELIEF

Conversation Skills Are Key to Success – in School and in Life.

Yet, for children growing up in our tech-centric world, live conversation has become hard and even scary. Today’s students struggle with the basics: expressing themselves, engaging different viewpoints, listening deeply, reading non-verbal cues. These are skills for learning across disciplines — and real life.

This is not “just a pandemic problem” … the decline in in-person social skills is a trend researchers have documented for a decade: a predictable opportunity cost of more time spent on screens. It’s not about to get better.

For teachers facing a tech-centric world, in-class learning – which relies on conversation – is becoming even more important. In an AI era, teachers need new tools for explicitly teaching the deeply human skills that robots can’t replace. At the top of the list? The oral and social skills that students learn through discussion.

The good news? These skills are age-old (thanks @Socrates), future-proof (hey AI) — and absolutely teachable. But they must be explicitly taught in schools.

R.E.A.L.® is the first research-backed approach for teaching and assessing oracy and discussion skills. Originally designed by Harvard graduates to serve world-leading US private schools, R.E.A.L.® now integrates with all major curricula. 

We are proud to partner with schools around the world, providing educators with training and tools to become the oracy and discussion skills experts our students need. 

You can tell your students that they are going to learn ‘discussion skills.’ To them, that is an abstract, daunting idea. R.E.A.L makes the intangible tangible and gives students concrete methods to improve discussion and conversation skills. It has been wonderful to see their confidence and ability grow this year.
Francisco
Literature Teacher

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Case Studies

Real Schools, Real Impact

Chattanooga, TN

Girls’ Preparatory School

R.E.A.L.® gives GPS a common language for teaching and celebrating the communication skills students need to live into our long-held values: advocacy, agency, belonging, acceptance, empathy.
Megan Cover
Head of School
Blairstown, NJ

Blair Academy

R.E.A.L.® enables our English teachers to effectively track students’ progress as they develop communication skills and confront challenges along the way, while its platform and ‘rules of engagement’ offer all voices opportunity to be heard.
Peter G. Curran
Head of School
Boston, MA

Nativity Preparatory School

R.E.A.L.® has been an essential tool for giving our students the skills and confidence to be heard — and listen deeply to each other.
Brian Maher
President

Group of students with teacher

Our Story

As a teacher and school leader, Liza Garonzik realized that her Gen-Z and Alpha students struggled to communicate live, in-person, and across any kind of difference.

Liza knew that these skills were high stakes for learning and life! So, she spent a decade working with experts, teachers, and researchers to develop R.E.A.L.®: the first research-based method for teaching face-to-face discussion skills.

Today, R.E.A.L.® has several programs for teaching discussion skills in K-12 schools. The student results speak for themselves!

But the secret ingredient behind our success? Our school partnership model. We don’t just sell a program. We partner with each school to design and implement a strategy that will really work — for kids, for teachers, and for the community.

Our Story

As a teacher and school leader, Liza Garonzik realized that her Gen-Z and Alpha students struggled to communicate live, in-person, and across any kind of difference.

Group of students with teacher

Liza knew that these skills were high stakes for learning and life! So, she spent a decade working with experts, teachers, and researchers to develop R.E.A.L.®: the first research-based method for teaching face-to-face discussion skills.

Today, R.E.A.L.® has several programs for teaching discussion skills in K-12 schools. The student results speak for themselves!

But the secret ingredient behind our success? Our school partnership model. We don’t just sell a program. We partner with each school to design and implement a strategy that will really work — for kids, for teachers, and for the community.

Featured School Partners

Program Preview

R.E.A.L.® is a method for breaking the deeply human art of great discussion into teachable, assessable, transferable skills for students who would rather text than talk. R.E.A.L.® has programs for Gr. 2-10.


98%

of teachers would recommend R.E.A.L.® to a colleague


96%

of students see R.E.A.L.® skills as useful beyond the classroom


98%

of students report more confidence in speaking up in discussion


96%

of students listen more actively to their peers


94%

of students show a growth mindset towards discussion


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The top five words teachers use to describe R.E.A.L.® PD :
Practical, Innovative, Fun/Funny, Motivating, Helpful

Stories from R.E.A.L.® teachers

“Breaking the mystery of discussion into teachable, learnable skills”

Patrick, Middle School Humanities

“Democratizing the classroom in a beautiful way”

Pam, Upper School History

“Game-changer for communication and community in my class”

Linda, Upper School History

“I know my students – and they know each other – so much better”

Kay & Liz, Upper School Religion

Next steps

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